Friday, November 16, 2007

Budapest Blues

There is a funny blog that Michael and I read called Pestiside, which details humorous happenings in Budapest. Last week, there was a headline that said "seven reasons to kill yourself," and then posted the weather report for the upcoming week. Although, it is a drastic headline, it's pretty much right. The sun has barely peaked out at all, and we've been subjected to a steady, cold drizzle for the past five days. It did snow on Sunday, which was lovely. As my friend Liz put it, we are just experiencing the "city blues." The weather is bringing me down, and the people, mainly on public transportation, are bothering her. I don't think there is a higher concentration of depressing looking people than on Eastern Europe metros. I watch their faces as I ride up and down escalators, and they are pessimistically glum. Liz just is more irritated that no one moves for each other to get in and out of the trains. Plus, it is very sad, because the amount of homeless people in the city has become very apparent over the last month. The city doesn't stop them from sleeping in the metro stations, so there are make-shift beds lining the walls and beggars everywhere. This makes the place reek of urine. Unlike Liz though, I have been lucky enough not to witness people peeing on a daily basis - I'll count myself lucky! Many of the homeless people have puppies and dogs. I can't decide which is sadder - the fact that the dogs are also homeless or that homeless men adopt dogs so they get more money, because people feel more sympathy for animals than they do for other humans.

On a lighter note - kind of - I received a job offer to be a business reporter for the Loveland newspaper where I used to intern. Instead of making me really excited, I just feel stressed. It makes leaving Budapest seem real, means I have to cancel my trip to Dallas in December which I already paid for since they need me to start 2 days after I get home, and of course it means much less freedom in my schedule. Yes, I am scared of a big-girl job. As Mike pointed out last night, I could just save money and slack off at the tour center, since tour guides get paid the same amount as starting reporters with college educations. Boo!! I have until Monday to make my final decision. Mostly, I don't want to leave Mike, but I don't think I want to be here with him as long as he wants to stay here - which seems to increase by the day.

Tomorrow, I will go ice skating at this beautiful outdoor rink and actually spend some time with Mike. He's been working insane hours for a proposal that got scrapped last minute. Now, he wants a week of his life back!

I just finished watching "Angels in America" which is an amazing play and TV series on HBO. There is quote in it that I thought was so beautiful, and it's been running through my mind:
"Nothing's lost forever. In this world, there's a kind of painful progress. Longing for what we've left behind and dreaming ahead."

Friday, November 9, 2007

I can spell Ljubljana


After a fun Halloween spent at a crowded ex-pat party in Budapest, Mike and I went to Ljubljana, the capital of Slovenia, during another four-day weekend. Initially, we were going to go to Italy too, because Ljubljana is only a couple hours away from the border, but we didn't want to spend the entire weekend on the train. So, while I still haven't gotten to Italy, this city was part of it before WWII, so I think it should count!
We left on Nov. 1 which is All Saints or All Souls Day in Budapest. Most Hungarians head to the cemetery to pay tribute to their relatives, clean their graves and leave candles. I admire the Hungarian devotion to their families. But, I also am amused that in the US we celebrate Halloween and avoid cemeteries while most of the world is flocking to their family's resting places at the same time. In fact, some Hungarians are irritated that Halloween is beginning to be celebrated here, because it interferes with their holy holiday.
The whole weekend trip was great, aside from travel woes. Since we decided to skip town on a holiday, of course the train station was packed. In true Hungarian fashion, they only had two ticket lines open for all international train tickets, and all of their tickets are written by hand. My largest annoyance with train travel is that there is no consistency. Prices are not posted anywhere and nothing is electronic, so it's anyones guess exactly what I'll pay. The line was huge, and we didn't think we'd get on the train in time. Finally, we waited 45 minutes and had five minutes to spare to find our train. So, we raced (literally) around the station, trying to find it. We rushed to the information office one minute before the train was schedule to depart, only to find out that it was leaving from a different station across the city -- I think this would have been really important information for the ticket agent to tell us?? Oh how I miss customer service . . Instead of leaving at noon, we had to leave at 5:30, so we didn't get to Slovenia until 2 a.m. instead of 9 p.m. Then, on our return trip back to Budapest, we got on a train going a different route than how we got to Slovenia. To get there, we cut through Croatia and into Slovenia. To get home we went straight through Slovenia, which costs 15 Euros extra a ticket. Of course, we were not informed of this until the ticket agent was checking our ticket outside of Ljubljana on Saturday morning at 7 a.m. We had blown most our Euros and only had 20 left. I am so thankful that the ticket agent gave us a break and just had us buy one ticket and let us go. I have no idea what we would have done if he dumped us in the middle of the Slovenian mountains! Luckily, no other agents checked our tickets until Hungary, and we were fine there.

In Ljubljana, we stayed at the best hostel I've ever been to, called Hostel Celica. It was renovated from an old military prison in 1991 by the student association in town. Twenty of the cells are still there, and individual artists redecorated each cell with a unique theme. We didn't stay in the cell block, because it was booked, but we got to see a few of them. I loved this hostel, because it was such a beautiful showcase of transformation. What was once a prison associated with war and suffering is now a peaceful, artistic meeting place of people from all over the world. One feature that was indicative of this change was an art gallery and a prayer room, which represented all the major world religions.
The city itself is a vibrant college town, with a castle perched on a hill and a river splicing it into two sections. Everyone there was happy and smiling, so it was a much needed break from Budapest. Plus, I loved being in a place where I could walk everywhere, there were less than 300,000 people and was filled with fun bars and art galleries galore. We toured the castle (this picture is of us on the top of the castle - you can see the Alps in the background), walked around the city and of course we found a micro-brewery for Mike. I wish we could have stayed longer, but we had to get back because Mike was supposed to go on a business trip to Macedonia, but it was canceled on his way to the airport! So, I'm happy he's been home all week.

Friday, October 26, 2007

Transylvania Treat




It was a dark and stormy evening as we approached Brasov. Our cramped car twisted around shadowy bends, wedged on each side by thickets of trees. Heavy droplets of rain, moments away from transforming to snow, plopped on our windshield. I was hypnotized by the wipers’ whine as we all stared out of the car, scrutinizing the road and watching fast moving clouds scurry across the moon, just shy of being full. Each of us hoped to spot the next human or stray dog that was prone to jump into the middle of the streets or, more likely, another horse-drawn carriage that tromped down the side of the road, bearing no lights to notify us of their presence.

That drive was the stuff of haunted tales, or at the very least, the beginning of a predictable horror movie where dusk spells doom. But it was the perfect setting for autumnal visitors to Transylvania, home to Dracula legends, to let our imaginations run wild until we reached the safe haven of our next accommodation.

I just returned from a weekend-road trip to Transylvania. Eight of us, mostly comprised of Mike, his coworkers and their significant others, one mascot – an oversized zucchini named Zoli, and later a cello that Bijal bought, squeezed into two diminutive European cars. Before this trip, I had no clue how large the Romanian region Transylvania was – we spent the majority of the three days in the car, but I was happy to drive because we got to see so much gorgeous scenery. It is full of rolling hills (complete with sheep and shepards), mountains with thick forests with fall leaves and even snow in higher elevations.

Just one year ago, I was in Dallas with Mike at a Vincent VanGogh exhibit called “Sheaves of Wheat,” a collection of his paintings of wheat fields in Europe. I never imagined that one year later, I would be in Romania, seeing these scenes that Vincent captured so skillfully in person.

Transylvania used to be part of Hungary, or “Greater Hungary” as it is referred. Before I left for the trip, when I told my students that I was going to the region all the Hungarians reminded me of its former owner – now after visiting it and seeing how beautiful it is, I understand their attachment to the region. Lucky for us, the people there still speak Hungarian, so since we had four native speakers in tow, it made communication easy.

The first night, we stayed at an adorable B&B, the “Tulipan” in a tiny town close to the border. For only 17 euro, we were served a delicious, traditional 3-course dinner, had wonderful accommodations in folksy-decorated rooms and had breakfast. Amazing deal. The next morning, we even woke up to a rooster crowing – not an experience I get in Budapest. The next night, we stayed in a town where Mike’s colleague, Doru is from called Tg-Mures. Doru’s mother cooked us dinner. She was really sweet and hospitable. It was a much-more developed cities than the others we stayed in, so we walked around the downtown and went to a restaurant there. The final night, we stayed in Brasov at a great house. There were 6 or 7 rooms, and only two other people staying there besides us. So, we took the place over. Having such nice, inexpensive accommodations makes it a great place to visit and makes tackling the roads worth it.

As we drove from town to town, we passed many provincial towns. We’d be driving quickly down a road and abruptly hit our breaks as we barreled into a town that had set up its market in the middle of the road. Here, locals could buy a few choices of clothing (which explained why there seemed to be a uniformity to the villagers dressing (women still wear traditional sweaters, long, brightly patterned skirts, and scarves over their hair, secured under their chins with a tight knot). People walked and led horses through the center of streets, impervious to the dangers of oncoming cars. I am very thankful I did not have to drive on this trip. Instead, I enjoyed watching everything unfold.

Driving through the little villages was a really important realization that people still live without many modern conveniences. Usually, I take it for granted that people can afford cars instead of horses or can afford to pave roads. But, driving through Romania was a good reminder of how easy I have it. I also loved driving through the mountains – they were snowy and beautiful. We even passed a few ski resorts, which left Mike drooling and wishing for his skis. At one point, we had a roadside picnic, and went for a small wintry hike – it was perfect.

Besides the car, we stopped at the Bear Cave – an impressive cave discovered in the 1970s. It is named this because the cave used to be home to a species of bears that is now extinct. Their bones are all over the cave, and one skeleton is dated over 25,000 years old. We also walked around Tg-Mures where I saw one of the most impressive churches yet in Europe. It was an Orthodox church with an amazing wall of Icons.

And of course, our last stop on our trip was Bran – where “Dracula’s Castle” resides. The story of Dracula was written by an Irishman who actually never visited Romania, but he based his book off this castle. So, even though there is no real castle, Transylvanians are not the least bit hesitant about exploiting the tale for commercial gain. I eavesdropped on an English tour in the castle, and the self-deprecating tour guide kept making fun of this fact. Even if there wasn’t a real vampire there, if I was a vampire, I’d probably hang out there. The castle is situated on a hill, which overlooks the whole town. The morning we were there, it was raining and misty, which made it seem authentic.

One of my favorite stops was in the castle district of Sighisoara. We arrived right before dusk, and it was by far the spookiest stop. We parked on a windy cobblestone road and set out for the castle. On the way, we stopped in a Palinka cellar to sample and buy some of the potent booze of the region. To get up to the castle, which was basically a fortress, you had to walk up steps with a black, wooden tunnel built over them. Little slivers of light shone through the structure, making it a murky climb to the top. By the time we got there the church was closed – so much for a safe haven. But, there was a spooky graveyard we visited. Both Mike and Bijal took pictures of some of the headstones. One of them said 194-1918. My response, along with other non-Hungarian speaker with us, was how cemetery pictures creep me out, especially for 4 year old grave. That’s when we were informed that it was a WWI memorial – then it was pretty funny that many of us were thinking the wrong thing.

On our late drive back to Hungary, the four of us in Ballazs’ car were stopped by border control twice, which was nerve-racking, considering Mike and I’s status and the new cello Bijal bought, for which she didn’t pay VAT. But, luckily, we got in. The border guards did ask Ballasz where he was “taking the women.” We laughed it off, but I guess it’s not that funny of question, because there is a lot of sex-trafficking in Eastern Europe.

You can see a lot more of our pictures via the link in my previous posting.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Links! Links! Links!

I am working on composing my blog about my weekend trip to Transylvania. It should be up soon (I just need to catch up on work and sleep first), but in the meantime, check out these photos from the trip, courtesy of Mike:

http://colostate.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2144393&l=46a49&id=19201156

Also, see some photos from Eger, the wine country:

http://colostate.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2142708&l=edfa8&id=19201156

Also, here are my most recent stories (the links don't seem to work for long, so hopefully they'll be up for awhile):
http://wherebudapest.hu/2007_10/five_best.html
http://wherebudapest.hu/2007_10/works_on_the_edge.html

Monday, October 15, 2007

Weekend winos







Good morning. Last night, I just returned from a very fun day trip to Eger - part of Hungary's wine regi
on with Mike and our great friends Liz and Tim. We got up early to catch the 9 a.m. train, because it was three hours there and three hours back. But, the landscapes are gorgeous on the ride, very pastoral, and some of them look like the foothill views from I-25 near Fort Collins. Once in Eger, we went straight to the wine valley and hopped from cellar to cellar, sampling wine all afternoon and enjoying a beautiful fall day. Even though I had just been there with my mom, it was great to go again, and it was Mike's first trip outside of Budapest in Hungary. I guess he went outside the city once to go paragliding, but I think it was time he see more of his country-of-choice.


In one of the Eger cellars we entered, we were the only ones in there, after being ushered in by the old man who owned it. There, we enjoyed a speech from the owner, who spoke a combination of Hungarian/German/English to us. Mike was the only one who could follow the animated conversation. All I could catch was that he kept discussing Hitler and seemed very anti-Semitic and anti-American when taken out of context, but Mike tried to explain that this really wasn't the case. He was just complaining about being constantly influenced and controlled by outsiders and having to switch from learning German to Russian, and now to English. Liz got some of his speech on video, so I'll post that when we get it. There was also this crazy older lady who we kept seeing at different wine cellars. She wore an enormous, fun-lined red coat, and wore enough make-up to rival Mimi from the Drew Carey show. She was at different cellars all day, and we kept seeing her pass out in short stints - where she would snuggle into her jacket, wake-up again and then get a new glass. She is a character who definitely needs a picture too.

Berlitz just keeps piling on the classes for me. I started a new one on Tuesday and Thursday mornings with business people at an oil company. The three students are really funny though, so it makes it worth it to have to teach classes from 8 am to 8 pm on those days. There is one student who continuously likes to cuss, so I am trying to expand his vocabulary. It is amusing to be able to cuss in another language, because the words carry no weight or connotations. So, while I can't get him to stop cussing completely, I am at least teaching him how to put it in complete sentences. This way he'll be a well-educated slanderer. It is crazy to think that I just started this job, but I'll already have to tell them I'm quitting soon. Liz just got yelled at by the school for not having enough availability when they didn't give her many classes, so I am sure they won't be happy to have me quit. Especially when they just had me take on 3 more classes last week!

And this photo is of Tim and me celebrating, after Liz made us a triumphant Mexican dinner.

This is a randomly-inserted picture of the
lovely ladies that I have girls night with. From right to left, there's Bijal from India/France/Atlanta, Bori from Hungary/Toronto, Liz from New York/Colorado, me, and Abim from Nigeria. We get together about once a week and watch movies or grab drinks.

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Breaking News

I (meaning Mike) just booked my flight home. While, I was planning to come home the same day as Mike, Dec. 8, the flight price jumped up to nearly $2000 for a one way ticket! So, instead, he found me a $490 ticket for a one-way flight on Dec. 6.I am sad not to have a travel buddy, but I can't beat that price. So, now I need to find a friend to pick me up at 12:30 am at DIA on a Thursday!

We also booked our flight to Ireland. We leave on the night of Thanksgiving and return on Sunday. We'll be staying with the Devins, so Mike gets to make Thanksgiving crafts with me and the little girls. My host sister Caoilinn said we couldn't come unless we made hand-turkeys again. It made me happy that she remembered doing it from two years ago.

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

City Living

It was just brought to my attention that I am in a Mike-style spiral, as it's been awhile since I last wrote a blog entry. I've been on a non-fiction writing kick and have had lots of Business Hungary/Where Budapest assignments lately. Also, my friends have been also very prolific in emailing me, which I love, but I have been spending copious amounts of time writing back. So, I apologize for not keeping my loyal readers updated - I just hadn't really noticed since I've been constantly writing and on my computer - just in different capacities.
Mike and my friend Jeff just visited us for the weekend, which was fun, but led to a lot of sleep-deprivation! But, I've been in the mood to go out dancing and stay up to the wee hours of the morning, so it was great.
Teaching is going well. My schools keep wanting to pile on the classes, and I am beginning to get overloaded. I always knew teaching would be a hard job, and not one I was particularly drawn to, but now I realize just how much time it takes to prepare for classes and really engage my students. So, I'm having a difficult time saying, "no" to more classes, but I think it's necessary if I want to keep up with my other interests. It makes me value teachers even more, and simultaneously exemplifies up my knowledge that teaching is not my professional calling.

Here are some other updates:
  • Tomorrow I finally get to tour the famous Parliament building with a group called NAWA (North American Women's Association). I am not joining the group, but just helping with their volunteer work, which is an "adopt a granny" program, where they pair up an orphanage and a nursing home and play Bingo or go on outings like this one tomorrow. I am quite excited, and happy to have found a service project. However, I need to brush-up on non-verbal communication, as none of the youth or elderly will speak English.
  • Mike went to Macedonia the week before last on a business trip for a USAID project. I am not too jealous about his travel destination, but I did realize that I don't like being left in Budapest alone at all. It can get quite lonesome and I don't like having to walk alone at night, but I don't have much choice. I have to hand it to Mike that he handled it for four months before I got here. He has to go again for a full week in November and perhaps once this month.
  • I am going to celebrate Thanksgiving with my host family in Ireland again. They offered a free place for Mike and I to stay, and a friend I studied abroad with will also be there with her host family that is related to mine. So, it'll be just like two years ago! I'm really really excited.
  • Yesterday I attended a press conference for AmCham on Karen Hughes. She used to be the communication director of Bush, and is now an ambassador and oversees three US Gov departments, and a whole host of other accolades like being the former head of the Republican party of Texas. Her speech was pretty interesting, but luckily it was short, because I had to write about it. I agreed with most things she said about corporate responsibility (the topic of the speech) except when she talked about the successes of No Child Left Behind, which she helped engineer. That made me want to gag and argue with her all at the same time . . . But, I refrained from putting this sentiment in my story.
  • Last week I attended a conference on Marketing, so I did a big story on Google and interviewed their rep for Hungary. Now I know too much about the company, but I'm starting to build my own web site with their tools that I found out about. I now own Marisabeahm.com. It's a work in progress though . . .
O.K., that's my massive update for now. I'll write a more specific detailed one later. But I just finished one class, and I have two to go today, so I have to get going.