Friday, October 26, 2007

Transylvania Treat




It was a dark and stormy evening as we approached Brasov. Our cramped car twisted around shadowy bends, wedged on each side by thickets of trees. Heavy droplets of rain, moments away from transforming to snow, plopped on our windshield. I was hypnotized by the wipers’ whine as we all stared out of the car, scrutinizing the road and watching fast moving clouds scurry across the moon, just shy of being full. Each of us hoped to spot the next human or stray dog that was prone to jump into the middle of the streets or, more likely, another horse-drawn carriage that tromped down the side of the road, bearing no lights to notify us of their presence.

That drive was the stuff of haunted tales, or at the very least, the beginning of a predictable horror movie where dusk spells doom. But it was the perfect setting for autumnal visitors to Transylvania, home to Dracula legends, to let our imaginations run wild until we reached the safe haven of our next accommodation.

I just returned from a weekend-road trip to Transylvania. Eight of us, mostly comprised of Mike, his coworkers and their significant others, one mascot – an oversized zucchini named Zoli, and later a cello that Bijal bought, squeezed into two diminutive European cars. Before this trip, I had no clue how large the Romanian region Transylvania was – we spent the majority of the three days in the car, but I was happy to drive because we got to see so much gorgeous scenery. It is full of rolling hills (complete with sheep and shepards), mountains with thick forests with fall leaves and even snow in higher elevations.

Just one year ago, I was in Dallas with Mike at a Vincent VanGogh exhibit called “Sheaves of Wheat,” a collection of his paintings of wheat fields in Europe. I never imagined that one year later, I would be in Romania, seeing these scenes that Vincent captured so skillfully in person.

Transylvania used to be part of Hungary, or “Greater Hungary” as it is referred. Before I left for the trip, when I told my students that I was going to the region all the Hungarians reminded me of its former owner – now after visiting it and seeing how beautiful it is, I understand their attachment to the region. Lucky for us, the people there still speak Hungarian, so since we had four native speakers in tow, it made communication easy.

The first night, we stayed at an adorable B&B, the “Tulipan” in a tiny town close to the border. For only 17 euro, we were served a delicious, traditional 3-course dinner, had wonderful accommodations in folksy-decorated rooms and had breakfast. Amazing deal. The next morning, we even woke up to a rooster crowing – not an experience I get in Budapest. The next night, we stayed in a town where Mike’s colleague, Doru is from called Tg-Mures. Doru’s mother cooked us dinner. She was really sweet and hospitable. It was a much-more developed cities than the others we stayed in, so we walked around the downtown and went to a restaurant there. The final night, we stayed in Brasov at a great house. There were 6 or 7 rooms, and only two other people staying there besides us. So, we took the place over. Having such nice, inexpensive accommodations makes it a great place to visit and makes tackling the roads worth it.

As we drove from town to town, we passed many provincial towns. We’d be driving quickly down a road and abruptly hit our breaks as we barreled into a town that had set up its market in the middle of the road. Here, locals could buy a few choices of clothing (which explained why there seemed to be a uniformity to the villagers dressing (women still wear traditional sweaters, long, brightly patterned skirts, and scarves over their hair, secured under their chins with a tight knot). People walked and led horses through the center of streets, impervious to the dangers of oncoming cars. I am very thankful I did not have to drive on this trip. Instead, I enjoyed watching everything unfold.

Driving through the little villages was a really important realization that people still live without many modern conveniences. Usually, I take it for granted that people can afford cars instead of horses or can afford to pave roads. But, driving through Romania was a good reminder of how easy I have it. I also loved driving through the mountains – they were snowy and beautiful. We even passed a few ski resorts, which left Mike drooling and wishing for his skis. At one point, we had a roadside picnic, and went for a small wintry hike – it was perfect.

Besides the car, we stopped at the Bear Cave – an impressive cave discovered in the 1970s. It is named this because the cave used to be home to a species of bears that is now extinct. Their bones are all over the cave, and one skeleton is dated over 25,000 years old. We also walked around Tg-Mures where I saw one of the most impressive churches yet in Europe. It was an Orthodox church with an amazing wall of Icons.

And of course, our last stop on our trip was Bran – where “Dracula’s Castle” resides. The story of Dracula was written by an Irishman who actually never visited Romania, but he based his book off this castle. So, even though there is no real castle, Transylvanians are not the least bit hesitant about exploiting the tale for commercial gain. I eavesdropped on an English tour in the castle, and the self-deprecating tour guide kept making fun of this fact. Even if there wasn’t a real vampire there, if I was a vampire, I’d probably hang out there. The castle is situated on a hill, which overlooks the whole town. The morning we were there, it was raining and misty, which made it seem authentic.

One of my favorite stops was in the castle district of Sighisoara. We arrived right before dusk, and it was by far the spookiest stop. We parked on a windy cobblestone road and set out for the castle. On the way, we stopped in a Palinka cellar to sample and buy some of the potent booze of the region. To get up to the castle, which was basically a fortress, you had to walk up steps with a black, wooden tunnel built over them. Little slivers of light shone through the structure, making it a murky climb to the top. By the time we got there the church was closed – so much for a safe haven. But, there was a spooky graveyard we visited. Both Mike and Bijal took pictures of some of the headstones. One of them said 194-1918. My response, along with other non-Hungarian speaker with us, was how cemetery pictures creep me out, especially for 4 year old grave. That’s when we were informed that it was a WWI memorial – then it was pretty funny that many of us were thinking the wrong thing.

On our late drive back to Hungary, the four of us in Ballazs’ car were stopped by border control twice, which was nerve-racking, considering Mike and I’s status and the new cello Bijal bought, for which she didn’t pay VAT. But, luckily, we got in. The border guards did ask Ballasz where he was “taking the women.” We laughed it off, but I guess it’s not that funny of question, because there is a lot of sex-trafficking in Eastern Europe.

You can see a lot more of our pictures via the link in my previous posting.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Links! Links! Links!

I am working on composing my blog about my weekend trip to Transylvania. It should be up soon (I just need to catch up on work and sleep first), but in the meantime, check out these photos from the trip, courtesy of Mike:

http://colostate.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2144393&l=46a49&id=19201156

Also, see some photos from Eger, the wine country:

http://colostate.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2142708&l=edfa8&id=19201156

Also, here are my most recent stories (the links don't seem to work for long, so hopefully they'll be up for awhile):
http://wherebudapest.hu/2007_10/five_best.html
http://wherebudapest.hu/2007_10/works_on_the_edge.html

Monday, October 15, 2007

Weekend winos







Good morning. Last night, I just returned from a very fun day trip to Eger - part of Hungary's wine regi
on with Mike and our great friends Liz and Tim. We got up early to catch the 9 a.m. train, because it was three hours there and three hours back. But, the landscapes are gorgeous on the ride, very pastoral, and some of them look like the foothill views from I-25 near Fort Collins. Once in Eger, we went straight to the wine valley and hopped from cellar to cellar, sampling wine all afternoon and enjoying a beautiful fall day. Even though I had just been there with my mom, it was great to go again, and it was Mike's first trip outside of Budapest in Hungary. I guess he went outside the city once to go paragliding, but I think it was time he see more of his country-of-choice.


In one of the Eger cellars we entered, we were the only ones in there, after being ushered in by the old man who owned it. There, we enjoyed a speech from the owner, who spoke a combination of Hungarian/German/English to us. Mike was the only one who could follow the animated conversation. All I could catch was that he kept discussing Hitler and seemed very anti-Semitic and anti-American when taken out of context, but Mike tried to explain that this really wasn't the case. He was just complaining about being constantly influenced and controlled by outsiders and having to switch from learning German to Russian, and now to English. Liz got some of his speech on video, so I'll post that when we get it. There was also this crazy older lady who we kept seeing at different wine cellars. She wore an enormous, fun-lined red coat, and wore enough make-up to rival Mimi from the Drew Carey show. She was at different cellars all day, and we kept seeing her pass out in short stints - where she would snuggle into her jacket, wake-up again and then get a new glass. She is a character who definitely needs a picture too.

Berlitz just keeps piling on the classes for me. I started a new one on Tuesday and Thursday mornings with business people at an oil company. The three students are really funny though, so it makes it worth it to have to teach classes from 8 am to 8 pm on those days. There is one student who continuously likes to cuss, so I am trying to expand his vocabulary. It is amusing to be able to cuss in another language, because the words carry no weight or connotations. So, while I can't get him to stop cussing completely, I am at least teaching him how to put it in complete sentences. This way he'll be a well-educated slanderer. It is crazy to think that I just started this job, but I'll already have to tell them I'm quitting soon. Liz just got yelled at by the school for not having enough availability when they didn't give her many classes, so I am sure they won't be happy to have me quit. Especially when they just had me take on 3 more classes last week!

And this photo is of Tim and me celebrating, after Liz made us a triumphant Mexican dinner.

This is a randomly-inserted picture of the
lovely ladies that I have girls night with. From right to left, there's Bijal from India/France/Atlanta, Bori from Hungary/Toronto, Liz from New York/Colorado, me, and Abim from Nigeria. We get together about once a week and watch movies or grab drinks.

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Breaking News

I (meaning Mike) just booked my flight home. While, I was planning to come home the same day as Mike, Dec. 8, the flight price jumped up to nearly $2000 for a one way ticket! So, instead, he found me a $490 ticket for a one-way flight on Dec. 6.I am sad not to have a travel buddy, but I can't beat that price. So, now I need to find a friend to pick me up at 12:30 am at DIA on a Thursday!

We also booked our flight to Ireland. We leave on the night of Thanksgiving and return on Sunday. We'll be staying with the Devins, so Mike gets to make Thanksgiving crafts with me and the little girls. My host sister Caoilinn said we couldn't come unless we made hand-turkeys again. It made me happy that she remembered doing it from two years ago.

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

City Living

It was just brought to my attention that I am in a Mike-style spiral, as it's been awhile since I last wrote a blog entry. I've been on a non-fiction writing kick and have had lots of Business Hungary/Where Budapest assignments lately. Also, my friends have been also very prolific in emailing me, which I love, but I have been spending copious amounts of time writing back. So, I apologize for not keeping my loyal readers updated - I just hadn't really noticed since I've been constantly writing and on my computer - just in different capacities.
Mike and my friend Jeff just visited us for the weekend, which was fun, but led to a lot of sleep-deprivation! But, I've been in the mood to go out dancing and stay up to the wee hours of the morning, so it was great.
Teaching is going well. My schools keep wanting to pile on the classes, and I am beginning to get overloaded. I always knew teaching would be a hard job, and not one I was particularly drawn to, but now I realize just how much time it takes to prepare for classes and really engage my students. So, I'm having a difficult time saying, "no" to more classes, but I think it's necessary if I want to keep up with my other interests. It makes me value teachers even more, and simultaneously exemplifies up my knowledge that teaching is not my professional calling.

Here are some other updates:
  • Tomorrow I finally get to tour the famous Parliament building with a group called NAWA (North American Women's Association). I am not joining the group, but just helping with their volunteer work, which is an "adopt a granny" program, where they pair up an orphanage and a nursing home and play Bingo or go on outings like this one tomorrow. I am quite excited, and happy to have found a service project. However, I need to brush-up on non-verbal communication, as none of the youth or elderly will speak English.
  • Mike went to Macedonia the week before last on a business trip for a USAID project. I am not too jealous about his travel destination, but I did realize that I don't like being left in Budapest alone at all. It can get quite lonesome and I don't like having to walk alone at night, but I don't have much choice. I have to hand it to Mike that he handled it for four months before I got here. He has to go again for a full week in November and perhaps once this month.
  • I am going to celebrate Thanksgiving with my host family in Ireland again. They offered a free place for Mike and I to stay, and a friend I studied abroad with will also be there with her host family that is related to mine. So, it'll be just like two years ago! I'm really really excited.
  • Yesterday I attended a press conference for AmCham on Karen Hughes. She used to be the communication director of Bush, and is now an ambassador and oversees three US Gov departments, and a whole host of other accolades like being the former head of the Republican party of Texas. Her speech was pretty interesting, but luckily it was short, because I had to write about it. I agreed with most things she said about corporate responsibility (the topic of the speech) except when she talked about the successes of No Child Left Behind, which she helped engineer. That made me want to gag and argue with her all at the same time . . . But, I refrained from putting this sentiment in my story.
  • Last week I attended a conference on Marketing, so I did a big story on Google and interviewed their rep for Hungary. Now I know too much about the company, but I'm starting to build my own web site with their tools that I found out about. I now own Marisabeahm.com. It's a work in progress though . . .
O.K., that's my massive update for now. I'll write a more specific detailed one later. But I just finished one class, and I have two to go today, so I have to get going.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Beahms take over Budapest


Right now, my mom should be still fast asleep, fighting off jet lag. She just returned from visiting me in Hungary for a week. I loved having her here. It would have been very odd to have lived in a foreign country for half a year and have none of my close friends or family come visit. So, now I have someone at home who will know what I'm talking about when I mention Marxim, a great communist-styled pizza place, or tell stories of my landlord Istvan. Here are my half of the photos of her visit. I think she took better ones with her camera:

http://colorado.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2197477&l=6021e&id=10215414

We did all sorts of fun stuff during her visit. First, we went to a wine festival at the Budapest castle district, where we saw live music (including an acapella group that performed Michael Jackson songs in Hungarian - quite strange) and saw an opera. La Traviata was not the most exciting of shows, but gazing at the ornate frescoes of the opera house made it worth it. Plus, opera tickets are less than the cost of a movie, so no one should miss out on it. My mom and I also spent a night in Eger, which is the wine region of Hungary. It was a cute, smaller town, known for women who fought off the Turkish army. The wine area was really cute - it only took about 20 minutes to walk from our hotel to the "Valley of Nice Women," which is what the region is called. I've also heard it called the Valley of Beautiful Women. In this valley, there are over 200 wine cellars to go sample from and plenty of wine to buy. Their specialty is called Bulls Blood - a deep red wine, so we lugged a few bottles of that back to Budapest.
In Budapest, we saw the main sights and met up with my mom's friend Gena from Fort Collins who happened to be in Hungary as well. We grabbed traditional Hungarian food and went to this really fun music pub I recently discovered. I think I will become a regular. On our last day, we were very indulgent and went to Gellert Bath and spa - the most ornate of the baths in Budapest. There we both got Swedish massages and soaked in the thermal waters. We also played around in their wave pool too. I want to do that every day! The massages were funny, because they give them to you when you're in your swimming suit, and they'll have 3 or more people in a room giving different people massages, and the ladies just jabber away in Hungarian to each other - but it's still relaxing nonetheless.

Now, it's back to work for me and Mike. He's been ill today, so we've just been staying at home. Of course, he won't admit he's sick, but just that he's "not well." I don't think staying up until 5:30 a.m. this morning to watch Arkansas play Alabama helped his cause. I could only make it through the first quarter and then I crashed. I am just not as good of a sports fan. Coming from Colorado, I missed out on the Southern, die-hard football gene. Luckily, Mike has met people in Budapest who do possess it.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Berlitz and Bullwinkle

My lifestyle has gone from a slow, self-dictated pace, to scattered and crazy. Of course, it's the latter style that I am most used to, but it came as a shock to my system this week to have very little free time. I guess it's time that I joined the working world. Teaching is going well so far, and I am lucky, because the school spoon-feeds my lesson plans to me. So, if I don't feel like getting creative, I don't have to.

So far, I have 5 different classes that I teach, but I've only met three, one of which I am dropping. The students I see the most are two business men from South Korea. They are here working at a bank for the next two months. As if the culture shock between leaving their families in Korea and moving to Budapest weren't enough, they've subjected themselves to taking both English and Hungarian lessons simultaneously. Yikes. I really like them, and I think they like me too, except they are not accustomed to the American accent, so I am hard to follow as they say.

The next class is advanced speakers which I have already dubbed the Bullwinkle class. This is because it has two people in it, and one of them is from an area right outside from Russia, and her name is Natasha. Naturally, she is pretty, tall and pale, just like the cartoons. She is a great student who learned English while working for the Red Cross. Now, she's taking lessons to master her English and entertain herself while her kids are at school. Today, she brought her adorable 3-year-old son to class, and he slept through the entire thing. Hopefully, that's not an indication of my teaching enthusiasm. The other man is Hungarian and named Atilla . . insert Atilla the Hun jokes here. He is another businessman and is a very good speaker, so it makes my job easy. Things will go well as long as I don't slip and call him Boris.

My other class is horrendous and will be dropped asap. It begins at 7:30 a.m., which is do-able. But, when I agreed to take it, the secretary neglected to tell me that it is on the Eastern outskirts of Pest, which is about as far away from my flat as you can get. Some of Berlitz's classes are taught in actual businesses, and this one was at a Volvo factory. I left my apartment at 6:30 and still managed to be half an hour late. I had to ride the entire line of a metro, get off, and take a bus for 45 minutes. So, I commuted for 3 hours to teach and get paid for 1.5 hours. Of course, the day I had to go was only 50 some degrees, windy and rainy. I was sleep deprived, grumpy, and not prepared to teach level one students, which is exceptionally challenging. Luckily, Berlitz realized that this was ridiculous and told me I don't have to do it anymore, except for tomorrow. So, my alarm clock is set for WAY too early tomorrow. When my alarm clock goes off, I wonder how I ever woke up for swim team practice at 5:30 am all those years . . .

Starting the week after next, I get two more groups of students. I hope they are as interesting as my current students. On Saturday, my Mom gets here, and I can't wait! We have lots of fun activities planned, and I took most the week off from teaching, so we can go explore wine country and Budapest.